“ I meet a lot of other boys." i said.
Why are you calling them ‘boys’? my friend asked.
Because, I said. "They are boys. They may be 29, or 31 but they are boys."
"How do you tell if they are men?" she asked.
"A man has a plan, I responded. A plan for his life, both personal and professional. Not only that, a man makes plans, to spend time with you. He does not want to “hang out” with you"